Sensual massage
A lot of the time when people think of sensual massage, their thoughts go straight to sex and get stuck there. It’s not just about physical pleasure; it’s a way to explore and honour each other’s bodies, minds, and souls respectfully, with love and tenderness.
As I’ve mentioned before, touch holds the incredible power to transform our emotional and psychological wellbeing. When it comes to relationships, the power of touch goes way beyond physical contact. Couples massage, in particular, harnesses this power, offering relaxation, stress relief, and a beautifully unique way to express those warm fuzzy feelings without the use of words.
Sensual massage, especially in tantric practices, is crucial in deepening connection and intimacy between partners. Among these, lingam massage is a profound way to explore and enhance emotional and physical connection. This type of massage, often integrated into a massage session with a trained therapist, goes beyond the traditional focus on muscle tension, as seen in techniques like Swedish massage.
It’s about strengthening that special bond, connecting on a much deeper level and breaking through the boundaries of your daily lives. By engaging in lingam massage, partners undertake a journey of joint discovery and understanding, gaining a much better sense of intimacy and trust.
Massage with a therapist
Going to a therapist for a massage is more than just simply receiving on at the same time; it’s a shared experience that can create a whole new dimension to a relationship.
Just imagine for a moment, entering a space where the mood is set to promote nothing but pure relaxation and comfort for each partner. As you lay side by side, skilled and trusted therapists work together in prefect harmony to ease all that built up muscle tension, forging a beautiful sense of peace and serenity that collectively envelops you as the synched motions soothe your bodies, harmonising and solidifying the bond between you.
It’s a time when the outside world falls away, allowing each partner to connect on a whole other level that’s both deeply emotional and spiritual. It’s a shared experience that’s wondrous and will linger long after the session. As you experience this unique togetherness, you’re not just sharing a treatment; you’re strengthening the bond between you in a way that mere words just can’t express, while renewing the trust and affection for one and other.
Massage at Home
Setting the scene for a massage at home is about a lot more than just physical comfort; it’s about creating a calm and peaceful environment that will enhance intimacy and your emotional connection. So, choose your room, turn off all devices and make sure won’t be disturbed. After dark is probably the best time so the daylight doesn’t interfere with mood setting, but blackout blinds and curtains can be your best friend if you choose to do this during the day.
Turn off all the lights and bring out the candles, but make sure you place them in safe and secure locations around the room. Candlelight is relaxing, soothing and it creates the perfect intimate setting. Cosy it up with soft blankets, cushions and pillows to make your experience more enjoyable. Don’t forget the music! Soft, relaxing tunes can help each of you to unwind and connect more deeply. Also, make sure the room is nice and warm to enhance comfort and help your muscles relax better. Use oils that are relaxing and that each of you like. Always remember to dilute the pure oils in a base oil and never apply directly to the skin. Sweet almond is always my favourite.
Remember, the goal of this is not just about the massage itself; it’s about creating something beautiful that will strengthen your emotional and spiritual bond. With the simplest of touches, you can create a magic together that can make the world fade away, turning your space into a peaceful bubble of the purest love and connectivity.
Techniques and Tips
Knowing what you’re doing before starting this journey together is important and can help to enhance your experience. Gentle light caresses are a great way to begin as they will help deepen the relaxation, while synching your energies.
Communication is essential in any form of massage and is needed from each partner. Words don’t always need to be used as bodily responses can indicate a lot, but always check in and allow them to help guide you. Explore different pressures and movements like kneading with your thumbs or circular motions with your whole hand. Mix it up a little and keep adding those light caresses with your fingertips.
Remember that this is quality time and you’re not training to become professional massage therapists. The goal is to enjoy one and other on multiple levels through the power of touch, so don’t rush anything and just focus on loving and caring for each other in that moment. Allow the magic you make to strengthen and deepen your bond.
Doing this regularly or going to trusted therapists can have significantly positive emotional and physical benefits. It can help you develop a much deeper level of communication, understanding, trust and empathy. Sensual massage can also help relieve muscle tension, aches and pains, align and unblock your energies, boost overall health and wellbeing of not just the individual but the entire relationship. It can help partners to unwind and renew their connection as they close the door to the outside world and just be together.
I encourage all forms of massage, but a sensual massage is on another level entirely. As arousing as it may be for each partner and may lead to more, it’s primary purpose is to deepen and strengthen the already existing bond you share. By connecting this way, you’re not just showing each other love and affection, but creating your own little world where you can go to connect your energies spiritually as you weave you’re your magic together and take your relationship into multiple dimensions. Go on, give it a try.
I really hope you have enjoyed the conclusion to my massage and touch therapy series. I enjoy sharing with you all and want to thank you for continuing to listen to my ramblings. I’m going to go in a bit of a different direction next week. I think I’m gonna bring out my witchy side and ramble about that.
Until next week, my darling. Love and light to you all.
Blessed be xxx